Not yer mama’s therapist! For all you LGBTQIA+ and unconventional folk out there- living in NY, NYC and FL- that don’t quite fit into the teeny tiny boxes society tries to cram us into!

Living authentically might not always be easy- but it’s always worth it!

*** Email: kelly@theunexpectedtherapist.com for free consult ***

Calling all …

  • unconventional people

  • non-conformists

  • non-traditional humans

  • LGBTQIA+

  • sex positive, kink/BDSM, poly/non-monogomous

  • people with “atypical” identifications and lifestyles

  • people that feel other

  • people that feel they dont fit in, don’t belong, aren’t accepted

  • “weirdos”

  • quirky

  • black sheep

  • misfits

  • free spirits

  • alternative people

  • unique individuals

  • people who don’t feel supported and valued by mainstream society

  • people who are disenfranchised

  • people struggling with vulnerability

  • eccentrics

  • people who feel or were made to feel different

Do you see yourself here? In a society that pushes and rewards “norms”, the conventional, traditional, the basic?

I’m here to see YOU. The real authentic you. Exactly who you are, exactly how you are.

I’m here to help you navigate a world with a cookie cutter society that isn’t always friendly to those of us who don’t fit into it’s wee tiny boxes.

Most therapists would now list a bunch of symptoms, feelings and situations you may be experiencing that they can help you with: anxious, depressed, judged, shamed, lack of confidence, stressed, confused, low self-esteem and self-worth … blah blah …

What I tend to see with my clients is that even though our work together will help to improve all of those things-

what I find it really comes down to for most of them is their identity-

conflicts and consequences that arise in their lives simply because they are trying to or wanting to live their lives as their true authentic selves in this fickle society filled with ever-changing societal constructs that change with the time period, place, culture and the next dang gust of wind!

Sometimes it just takes being in a space with someone who truly wants to know exactly who you are, as you are- and that’s what I provide in therapy.

Together we will work on ways that you can be more of your full, true authentic self- and safely- in this inconsistent society that doesn’t always reward that.

So that you can live more freely- fulfilled and empowered!

Without compromising yourself, your authenticity, your IDENTITY- life and true happiness.

Because if we’re REALLY honest with ourselves-think about it- isn’t that what this life is actually all about?

TAKE THE RISK- to be vulnerable- which is courageous- because living authentically might not always be easy, but it’s ALWAYS WORTH IT!

DARE TO BE DIFFERENT, TO BE AUTHENTIC- and experience true happiness and fulfillment in your life!